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Have a calm and rational discussion about it. Definitely dont ask him if hes sure hes biual, Jane says. Jane, Joanne, a recent graduate of Northwestern University who has dated a biual guy, and Danielle, a recent graduate of Harvard University who is currently dating a biual guy, have. Youre totally into him, but you may be wondering: Is dating a biual guy different from dating a heteroual guy? What is slightly awkward in small towns in public becomes great at home. Other than that its pretty much the same as dating girls really. Then we have men, who are just as amazing. Marni Battista, the relationship and love expert behind. It isnt; I am attracted to both genders. At the risk of generalizing, if I want to vent in a way where I will be validated and understood, I go to women, and if I want a partner. Smith urges collegiettes to talk to their biual guy at the very beginning of the relationship instead of later on. For some reason, my friends would get weird whenever they saw either of my biual boyfriends talking to guys, especially guys they knew were gay or biual, she says. If you have similar interests you could just relax and play video games, then suck each others dicks if you were both horny. There has to be trust, attraction, love and ground rules. Bi guy here, currently in a relationship with another guy. Ive always felt more emotionally attached to women and almost exclusively ually attracted to men. Im pretty sure this is a universal fixed constant. These relationships ended because of conventional relationship problems, which is something I think some people dont get, she says. It may get tiring hearing your friends constantly ask about your relationship, but dont let it get to you. As is the same with all relationships, the best thing to do is keep communication open! I prefer a dick inside me more than rubbing my clit with another female though. Make sure you are both ready and present to talk about uality, comfort and boundaries. When we visited my family last year, I told Josh not to bring up any party stories, so it works both ways. Especially when it comes to the little things, like baking you cookies when they know you had a bad day or doing the laundry when youre in a hurry. I can go days without getting a match on Tinder but there are 40 new dudes trying to talk to me on Grindr every day, its just kinda refreshing to. Because we arent lesbians and will date guys, many of them jump to Oh, you must be straight, and youre just with girls to experiment/for attention. Jane, a senior at Wesleyan University who has previously dated two biual guys, found that both guys viewed their biuality completely differently. Its like having a friend you can chill out with, as well as an emotional/physical partner. Guys tend to be cool with it or ask for a threesome. Jane also says that neither of her relationships ended because of either guys uality. The way I see it, everyones emotions, physicality, and unrefined chemistry with someone sits on a spectrum and no two people are alike- it all depends on the person. Even though your level of openness and honesty might differ depending on your relationship, there are a couple of ual-orientation-conversation no-nos. Smith also reminds collegiettes that being biual says nothing about a persons promiscuity. I can get over a guy fairly easily; women are so, so much harder to get over. You might feel a little weird approaching a beau (or potential beau) about his uality; after all, uality is an extremely personal thing, and you dont want to hurt anyones. On a general level its much easier for me to connect with women and the majority of my friends are girls, but that may just be my own baggage. Jane felt that communication was key, especially because dating a biual guy for her was the same in a lot of respects as dating a heteroual guy. Thats not to say I havent felt emotional connection to men as well.